Opinion/2 mins/Lagos

Who Set These Beauty Standards You're Trying Hard to Meet?

Stop trying to fit in but reclaim your individuality by defining what beauty means to you.

By Esther Kalu • May 13, 2026

Who? Is there a name? Anybody? Who set these beauty standards everyone is trying so hard to meet?

I did not deliberately choose to be a not-so girly girl. I only liked my simplicity too much and didn't realise I wasn't paying attention to beauty standards all along.

Lashes. Heavy makeup. Wigs. Polished Nails.

They've never really meant anything to me and why should they?

Why must I wear makeup to feel beautiful?